Each of you taps your inner weather once a day. Your partner sees it at a time they choose, with ways to care drawn from your own answers, not a template.
Android now. iPhone in 2027.
Tuesday, 8 December
Good evening, Sam
That's where couples most often miss each other. One of you walks in drained; the other finds out an hour later. Ourlight fixes those five minutes.
Once a day, pick one of eight states. Add a feeling or a short note if you like. It takes a few seconds.
Your partner picks the time updates reach them, so a rough-day check-in never lands in the middle of their meeting.
With your weather come ways to care drawn from your care profile: what helps you, and what doesn't.
Enough to say what kind of evening you need, without having to explain it.
Good day, open to plans.
Mixed day. Fine, but quiet.
Rough day. Go gently.
Very hard day. Take things off my plate.
Tired, not upset. Low effort tonight.
Let me land before we talk.
Listen, please. No fixing.
Company, a hug, time together.
When you set up Ourlight, you answer a few questions about how you like to be cared for.
On a rough day, do you want quiet first, or to talk it out? What helps most: a hug, a task taken off your plate, time together? What makes it worse? Your partner's ideas come only from your answers, and theirs from theirs.
The quietest help is often the best: a chore done without a word. Ourlight suggests it and never announces it.
the garden, old films, ginger tea
What you share is for one person.
Every check-in, note and message is visible to you and the one person you pair with. Nobody else.
No advertising, no advertising IDs, no location, no contacts. We count how the app is used anonymously, to fix and improve it.
Check-ins you keep private never leave your phone.
Settings → Delete my account and data removes it all from our servers and your phone. Read the privacy policy.
Stress from outside the relationship spills into how partners treat each other at home.
Support the receiver doesn't notice as support, "invisible support", often helps most.
Across many studies, couples who cope with stress together report better relationships.
Small moments where one partner reaches out and the other turns toward them matter.
Yes. The daily check-in, delivery at your chosen time and care ideas are free for both of you. A paid plan with extras will come later; the daily core stays free.
Yes. Ourlight works between two people. One of you invites the other by email or with a six-character code, and the two phones pair.
Each person chooses when updates reach them, so a hard-day check-in doesn't land in the middle of their meeting. They see it at the time they set, ready to respond.
From your partner's own answers: how they like to be cared for on a rough day, what helps and what doesn't. Nothing is based on gender, and nothing is a prediction.
Not yet. Ourlight is on Android first. Leave your email below and we will tell you once when the iPhone version is ready.
No. It is a small daily tool for couples. If you feel unsafe or are in crisis, contact local emergency services or a helpline in your country.
Leave your email and we'll write when Ourlight is ready for iPhone. One email, no newsletter.
Write to hello@ourlight.app with "iPhone" in the subject and we'll let you know.